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“Dear friend, I pray thee, if thou wouldst be proving Thy strong regard for me, Make me no vows. Lip-service is not loving; Let thy faith speak for thee.” quote by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
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“Dear friend, I pray thee, if thou wouldst be proving Thy strong regard for me, Make me no vows. Lip-service is not loving; Let thy faith speak for thee.”

Ella Wheeler Wilcox

About This Quote

Source Poem: “Dear Friend” (published 1902)

The speaker asks a loved one to demonstrate genuine care through actions rather than empty promises.

In simple terms: Show love through deeds, not words.

Key Takeaway

Let actions speak love.

Themes

authenticity faith relationships

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

poetic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • friendship building
  • personal vows

Key Concepts

trust spiritual commitment

Questions to Reflect On

  • What actions would you consider a true vow?
  • How can we balance words and deeds?
A Different Perspective

People may fear vulnerability when asked to act.

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