Ignoring Quote by Ella Frank
““Josh: "Are you really going to sit there and pretend that I don't exist?" Shel: "I'm not pretending you don't exist. In fact, I am very aware you are right there. I am pointedly ignoring you.””
About This Quote
Source Film: Dialogue from an unknown indie film, 2020
A character acknowledges another's presence but deliberately chooses to ignore them, highlighting selective attention and emotional avoidance.
In simple terms: Someone is noticed but ignored on purpose.
Recognize when you are ignoring someone.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- workplace
- family gatherings
- online interactions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we ignore people we see?
- What are the costs of selective attention?
Ignoring can damage trust and deepen conflict.