Clash Quote by Elizabeth Gilbert
“The great Sufi poet and philosopher Rumi once advised his students to write down the three things they most wanted in life. If any item on the list clashes with any other item, Rumi warned, you are destined for unhappiness.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Essential Rumi, translated by Coleman Barks, 1995
Rumi suggests aligning desires; conflicting goals cause unhappiness.
In simple terms: Conflicting wishes bring misery.
Key Takeaway
Align your goals to avoid conflict.
Themes
desire
alignment
contentment
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career planning
- relationship goals
- personal aspirations
- financial planning
Key Concepts
Rumi philosophy
goal setting
Questions to Reflect On
- Which of your top three wishes clash?
- Can you restructure goals to harmonize?
A Different Perspective
If desires conflict, you may still find happiness through compromise.
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