Addiction Quote by Elizabeth Gilbert
““My own sober dating plan is approximately three pages long, and it includes such items as “NO WEEKLONG FIRST DATES.” My plan also forbids me from texting obsessively between dates, dropping any existing plans or projects because of a new relationship, falling into fantasy with someone I have met in my travels (aka not in real life), moving virtual strangers into my home, trying to rescue unrecovered alcoholics or drug addicts; buying expensive gifts for new lovers; or sharing bank accounts with anyone, ever. If all this sounds boring, or feels like it removes the spontaneity and intensity from romance, that is exactly the point. Spontaneity, for sex and love addicts, is exceedingly dangerous, and intensity is something I am wise to avoid.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New York Times, “Elizabeth Gilbert on Dating”, 2015
A detailed personal dating strategy limits impulsive, risky behaviors to protect emotional health and avoid addiction to romance intensity.
In simple terms: A strict dating plan prevents unhealthy romance habits.
Key Takeaway
Follow a clear, disciplined dating plan.
Themes
relationships
self‑care
boundaries
addiction
intentionality
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advice
personal‑policy
When to use this quote
- online dating
- first dates
- new relationships
- financial decisions
Key Concepts
behavioral self‑regulation
risk management
emotional safety
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance safety with openness?
- What boundaries feel most essential?
A Different Perspective
May feel overly rigid and limit genuine connection.
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