Christian Quote by Elizabeth Gilbert
“In every possible instance Saint Paul begged Christians to restrain themselves to contain their carnal yearnings to live solitary and sexless lives on earth as it is in heaven. "But if they cannot contain " Paul finally conceded then "let them marry for it is better to marry than to burn." Which is perhaps the most begrudging endorsement of matrimony in human history.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Divine Comedy, Dante Alighieri, 1320
Paul advises sexual restraint for spiritual purity, but permits marriage when self‑control fails, suggesting marriage is preferable to uncontrolled desire.
In simple terms: Paul says celibacy is ideal, but marriage is better than lustful excess.
Key Takeaway
Embrace marriage if you cannot maintain celibacy.
Themes
spirituality
sexuality
marriage
self‑control
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
theological
ethical
When to use this quote
- monastic life
- married couples
- pastoral counseling
- personal decision‑making
Key Concepts
Christian ethics
human desire
theology
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you think celibacy is necessary for spiritual growth?
- How do modern views on sexuality compare?
A Different Perspective
Paul’s view reflects cultural norms of his era and may not apply universally today.
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