Chance Quote by Elif Batuman
““When you think about all the infinitely many galaxies and combinations of DNA, and against all those odds you meet this person - it's a miracle...' 'Right,' I said. I couldn't imagine viewing Bill's presence on Earth as any kind of a miracle, but wasn't that itself the miracle - that love really was an obscure and unfathomable connection between individuals, and not an economic contest where everyone was matched up by how quantifiably lovable they are?””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New Yorker, “Elif Batuman on Love and Probability”, 2023
The quote reflects on the astonishing odds of meeting a specific person, suggesting that love is a mysterious, non‑quantifiable bond rather than a market‑like matching system.
In simple terms: Meeting someone is a miracle; love is a mysterious connection, not a market.
Cherish the mystery of love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- long‑term partnership
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance wonder with agency in love?
- Can love be both mysterious and intentional?
It may overlook the role of choice and effort in relationships.