American society Quote by Edward T. Welch
““People who have experienced war have learned to accept the trials and sufferings of life. Among many wise, older citizens in American society, there is no desperate flight from suffering. Instead, there is a recognition that it is a part of life that can have some benefit. Yet among those in the post-World War II generation, a wisp of happiness is the goal, and suffering must be avoided at all costs. If there are hardships in a relationship, end it. If there is an unpleasant emotion, medicate it. It is a generation that perceives no value to any hardship. Like a pampered child who never experienced the regular storms of life, we lack the skill of growing through our trials.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The American Post‑War Generation, 2020
The quote argues that older generations view suffering as inevitable and potentially beneficial, while younger post‑WWII generations seek to avoid all hardship, losing resilience.
In simple terms: Older people accept hardship; younger people avoid it.
Embrace challenges to build resilience.
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When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- mental health treatment
- education on coping
- family upbringing
- workplace stress
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we teach younger people to see value in hardship?
- What practices help balance comfort with growth?
Avoiding all discomfort can stunt emotional development and coping skills.