Being married Quote by Edna St. Vincent Millay
“Marriage...one of the most civilized institutions in the world...But...swimming is one of the most wonderful of sports, and yet there are always some people who cannot swim who insist on going into the water and getting drowned. Many people spoil marriage in a like manner. One should be sure she knows how to be married before rushing into it.”
About This Quote
Source Poem: “Marriage” (date unknown)
Marriage is likened to swimming; entering without skill leads to disaster, urging preparedness before commitment.
In simple terms: Be ready before marrying, like learning to swim.
Key Takeaway
Learn partnership skills first.
Themes
marriage
commitment
preparation
risk
Mood
thoughtful
cautious
serious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- engagement planning
- premarital counseling
- learning conflict resolution
- building trust
Key Concepts
relationship readiness
communication
mutual responsibility
Questions to Reflect On
- Are you prepared for the challenges of marriage?
- What skills are essential before committing?
A Different Perspective
People may love marriage despite risks; preparation isn’t always possible.
![“A lot of people [are] saying civil union," Faried told KDVR. "I don't like it being called that because I can get married to a female and it can be called a marriage. Why can't a female be married to a female and male be married to a male and it be called a marriage? You still have the same thing…” quote by Kenneth Faried](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/ccf/kenneth-faried-106860_because-i-can_a-lot-of-people-are-saying-civil-union-f_31787.jpg)
