Explaining Quote by Edith Wharton
““Sir Helmsley imparted this information in a loud, almost challenging voice, as he always did when he had to communicate anything unexpected or difficult to account for. Explaining was a nuisance, and somewhat of a derogation. He resented anything that made it necessary, and always spoke as if his interlocutor ought to have known beforehand the answer to the questions he was putting.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The House of Mirth, 1905
A character speaks in a demanding tone, treating explanations as burdens and assuming others should already know the answers.
In simple terms: Speaks condescendingly, dislikes explaining.
Key Takeaway
Avoid unnecessary explanations; seek clarity.
Themes
communication
authority
assumptions
Mood
critical
analytical
detached
Type
literary
character analysis
When to use this quote
- work meetings
- customer service
- teaching
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
power dynamics
social etiquette
Questions to Reflect On
- Why does he resent explaining?
- How can you ask for clarification without assuming knowledge?
A Different Perspective
Risk of alienating listeners.
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