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Freedom Quote by Edith Wharton

“Poor May!" he said. "Poor? Why poor?" she echoed with a strained laugh. "Because I shall never be able to open a window without worrying you," he rejoined, laughing also. For a moment she was silent; then she said very low, her head bowed over her work: "I shall never worry if you're happy." "Ah…” quote by Edith Wharton
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““Poor May!" he said. "Poor? Why poor?" she echoed with a strained laugh. "Because I shall never be able to open a window without worrying you," he rejoined, laughing also. For a moment she was silent; then she said very low, her head bowed over her work: "I shall never worry if you're happy." "Ah, my dear; and I shall never be happy unless I can open the windows!" "In THIS weather?" she remonstrated; and with a sigh he buried his head in his book.””

Edith Wharton

About This Quote

Source Novel: The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton, 1905

A dialogue about mutual dependence, where each partner feels unable to act without the other's emotional state, highlighting co‑dependency and personal freedom.

In simple terms: They feel they can’t be happy unless the other is happy.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and nurture individual autonomy.

Themes

relationships dependence communication freedom emotional health

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

literary dialogue

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • friendship dynamics
  • family relationships
  • workplace teamwork

Key Concepts

co‑dependency mutual reliance personal autonomy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does co‑dependency limit personal growth?
  • What steps can create healthy interdependence?
A Different Perspective

May overlook the need for personal boundaries and self‑care.

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