Freedom Quote by Edith Wharton
““Poor May!" he said. "Poor? Why poor?" she echoed with a strained laugh. "Because I shall never be able to open a window without worrying you," he rejoined, laughing also. For a moment she was silent; then she said very low, her head bowed over her work: "I shall never worry if you're happy." "Ah, my dear; and I shall never be happy unless I can open the windows!" "In THIS weather?" she remonstrated; and with a sigh he buried his head in his book.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton, 1905
A dialogue about mutual dependence, where each partner feels unable to act without the other's emotional state, highlighting co‑dependency and personal freedom.
In simple terms: They feel they can’t be happy unless the other is happy.
Recognize and nurture individual autonomy.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- friendship dynamics
- family relationships
- workplace teamwork
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does co‑dependency limit personal growth?
- What steps can create healthy interdependence?
May overlook the need for personal boundaries and self‑care.