Absence Quote by Eda LeShan
“Becoming more flexible, open-minded, having a capacity to deal with change is a good thing. But it is far from the whole story. Grandparents, in the absence of the social institutions that once demanded civilized behavior, have their work cut out for them. Our grandchildren are hungry for our love and approval, but also for standards being set.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Inner World of Children, 1975
Flexibility and openness are valuable, yet they’re insufficient without clear standards and guidance for younger generations.
In simple terms: Being open is good but not enough without rules.
Key Takeaway
Balance openness with firm expectations.
Themes
flexibility
parenting
generational dynamics
Mood
thoughtful
concerned
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- raising children
- family counseling
- educational programs
- community support
Key Concepts
psychology
social norms
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we teach adaptability while maintaining standards?
- What boundaries are essential for healthy development?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on flexibility may lead to lack of discipline.
