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Christian Quote by Douglas A. Campbell

“Christians often fail to get in touch with the shocking message that can lie at the heart of evangelism: “I am here to change you, and I’m going to change you so that you become like me.” There are some obvious dangers here once we think about all this. If we approach people in this way, we are…” quote by Douglas A. Campbell
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““Christians often fail to get in touch with the shocking message that can lie at the heart of evangelism: “I am here to change you, and I’m going to change you so that you become like me.” There are some obvious dangers here once we think about all this. If we approach people in this way, we are not treating them as people. We are not respecting them. We are treating them as part of our own program, like an objective and a statistic, and this is self-centered as well as disrespectful. An obnoxious smell of superiority is apparent. Further, we are judging people as fundamentally inadequate. *We* are okay, of course. Missionary work conducted in this spirit is a well-intentioned but self-centered power-play… We can avoid this instrumentalizing of potential converts - a making of them into something like an instrument or tool that then does something for us - only by approaching them for their own sakes and hence not as potential converts at all. We must value our initial relationships with people for what they are and not in terms of what we want out of them. This means that we must want to become their friends. Moreover, it must be a friendship with no strings attached. We must seek out relationships because we are interested in and value other people for who they are, right where they are. Conversions would be nice, but they are not our main agenda. We hope and pray for the best for our new friends, but that is not our principal motivation for relating to them. In this way and only in this way do we avoid colonizing people as we convert them.””

Douglas A. Campbell

About This Quote

Source Essay: Theology and Ethics, 2020

Missionary work should respect individuals as friends, not tools, avoiding self‑centered conversion motives.

In simple terms: Treat people as friends, not conversion targets.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize genuine relationships.

Themes

missionary work respect humility friendship

Mood

empathetic ethical

Type

theological reflective

When to use this quote

  • church outreach
  • interfaith dialogue
  • volunteering
  • community building

Key Concepts

Instrumentalization colonialism ethical evangelism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can evangelism honor personal autonomy?
  • What safeguards prevent instrumentalizing others?
A Different Perspective

Balancing conviction with respect is challenging.

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