Skip to content

Accepting Quote by Donald Miller

“It's not what people do that scares me. It's what they hide. It's the secrets that keep us from bonding and create distrust. If we were more willing to accept each other's depravity we'd be more united, we'd be more honest. If you hide two things from me, I'll assume you're hiding a million. And…” quote by Donald Miller
Download Open image
“It's not what people do that scares me. It's what they hide. It's the secrets that keep us from bonding and create distrust. If we were more willing to accept each other's depravity we'd be more united, we'd be more honest. If you hide two things from me, I'll assume you're hiding a million. And I'll keep you at a distance. I'm not afraid of the evil in you. It's in me too.”

Donald Miller

About This Quote

Source Interview: The Journey of Purpose, 2020

Hidden fears and secrets erode trust, while openness about flaws can foster honesty and unity.

In simple terms: Secrets damage trust; honesty builds bonds.

Key Takeaway

Encourage transparent communication.

Themes

trust vulnerability relationships

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

motivational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • team building
  • friendship
  • family counseling

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics authenticity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What secrets are you holding back?
  • How can vulnerability improve your connections?
A Different Perspective

People may resist exposing painful truths.

3.6 out of 5 (7 ratings)

More by Donald Miller

Explore all 448 Donald Miller quotes

More Accepting quotes

Browse all 6,788 Accepting quotes