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Afraid Quote by Don DeLillo

“How strange it is. We have these deep terrible lingering fears about ourselves and the people we love. Yet we walk around, talk to people, eat and drink. We manage to function. The feelings are deep and real. Shouldn't they paralyze us? How is it we can survive them, at least for a little while?…” quote by Don DeLillo
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“How strange it is. We have these deep terrible lingering fears about ourselves and the people we love. Yet we walk around, talk to people, eat and drink. We manage to function. The feelings are deep and real. Shouldn't they paralyze us? How is it we can survive them, at least for a little while? We drive a car, we teach a class. How is it no one sees how deeply afraid we were, last night, this morning? Is it something we all hide from each other, by mutual consent? Or do we share the same secret without knowing it? Wear the same disguise?”

Don DeLillo

About This Quote

Source Novel: White Noise, Don DeLillo, 1985

People conceal deep anxieties while continuing daily life, masking fear with normal activities.

In simple terms: We hide fears but keep functioning.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge hidden fears and seek connection.

Themes

fear social masks existential anxiety daily routine

Mood

reflective somber

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • teaching
  • driving
  • social gatherings
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

psychology existentialism social conformity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What fears do you hide from others?
  • How can openness reduce collective anxiety?
A Different Perspective

Fear may be suppressed but can resurface unexpectedly.

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