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“... deep down, in some vague, mixed way I had been letting myself hope that he didn't really care for her, that it was me he loved and that kissing me would have made him realise it...” quote by Dodie Smith
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““... deep down, in some vague, mixed way I had been letting myself hope that he didn't really care for her, that it was me he loved and that kissing me would have made him realise it...””

Dodie Smith

About This Quote

Source Novel: I Capture the Castle, 1948

The narrator hopes for a romantic connection, projecting personal desire onto another.

In simple terms: Hope can distort perception of love.

Key Takeaway

Seek clarity, not assumptions.

Themes

romance hope self‑deception

Mood

hopeful melancholic

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendships
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

projection emotional longing

Questions to Reflect On

  • What evidence supports your hope?
  • How to differentiate desire from reality?
A Different Perspective

Unrealistic expectations can cause disappointment.

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