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“The Spear in the Other’s heart is the spear in your own: you are he.” quote by Diane Duane
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“The Spear in the Other’s heart is the spear in your own: you are he.”

Diane Duane

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Darkangel Trilogy by Diane Duane, 1995

One’s pain inflicted on another reflects back onto oneself, showing that harming others harms the self.

In simple terms: Hurting others hurts yourself.

Key Takeaway

Treat others with compassion to protect yourself.

Themes

empathy interconnectedness violence self‑reflection

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

ethical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • personal relationships
  • mental health

Key Concepts

ethical philosophy psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can you identify a time you felt another’s pain?
  • How does empathy change your actions?
A Different Perspective

Compassion may be difficult in hostile contexts.

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