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Children Quote by Diane Ackerman

“Couples are jigsaw puzzles that hang together by touching in just enough points. They're never total fits or misfits. ... We marry children who have grown up and still rejoice in being children … [p. 15]” quote by Diane Ackerman
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““Couples are jigsaw puzzles that hang together by touching in just enough points. They're never total fits or misfits. ... We marry children who have grown up and still rejoice in being children … [p. 15]””

Diane Ackerman

About This Quote

Source Book: “The Zookeeper’s Wife” by Diane Ackerman, 2007

Compares relationships to puzzles that interlock imperfectly, celebrating ongoing childlike wonder in marriage.

In simple terms: Marriages are imperfect yet joyful connections.

Key Takeaway

Embrace imperfect togetherness.

Themes

relationships love imperfection

Mood

thoughtful warm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • long‑term partnership
  • family dynamics

Key Concepts

systems theory psychology of attachment

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you maintain playfulness over time?
  • What does “just enough points” mean for intimacy?
A Different Perspective

May romanticize conflict.

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