Chafing Quote by Diana Gabaldon
““that made me relieved that looks in fact cannot kill. Jamie followed me up to my chamber, and somewhat to my surprise, came in after me. The surprise vanished when he shut the door and immediately shed his shirt. I had forgotten the dressing, which I had been meaning to remove for the last two days. “I’ll be glad to get this off,” he said, rubbing at the rayon and linen harness arrangement under his arm. “It’s been chafing me for days.” “I’m surprised you didn’t take it off yourself, then,” I said, reaching up to untie the knots. “I was afraid to, after the scolding ye gave me when you put the first one on,” he said, grinning impudently down at me. “Thought I’d get my bum smacked if I touched it.” “You’ll get it smacked now, if you don’t sit down and keep still,” I answered, mock-stern. I put both hands on his good shoulder and, a little unsteadily, pulled him down onto the bedroom stool. I slipped the harness off and carefully probed the shoulder joint. It was still slightly swollen, with some bruising, but thankfully I could find no evidence of torn muscles.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Outlander by Diana Gabaldon, 1991
A tense domestic scene reveals the characters' struggle with physical discomfort and power dynamics, underscoring the importance of communication and consent.
In simple terms: Physical discomfort and power play in a relationship.
Address discomfort openly and respect boundaries.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marital intimacy
- medical care
- conflict resolution
- personal boundaries
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can partners ensure mutual comfort?
- What role does humor play in conflict?
The humor may mask deeper issues of control and lack of consent.