Certain Quote by Denis de Rougemont
“Both in the lower and the middle classes the wiseacres urge young men 'to think it over' before taking the decisive step. Thus they foster the delusion that the choice of a wife or husband may be governed by a certain number of accurately weighable pros and cons. This is a crude delusion on the part of common sense.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Meaning of the Modern World, 1950
Choosing a spouse is not a simple cost‑benefit analysis; love and compatibility resist precise weighing.
In simple terms: Marriage isn’t a rational calculation.
Key Takeaway
Embrace uncertainty in love.
Themes
relationships
philosophy
decision‑making
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage counseling
- family planning
Key Concepts
irrationality
human emotion
Questions to Reflect On
- Can love be quantified?
- What role does intuition play in partner selection?
A Different Perspective
Romantic choices also involve social and economic pressures.
