Anguish Quote by Denis de Rougemont
“One possessed a thousand and three women (in Spain alone), the other only one. But it is multiplicity that is impoverished, whilethe entire world is concentrated in a single being infinitely possessed. Tristan no longer needs the world--because he loves! While Don Juan, always loved, cannot love in return. Hence his anguish and his frenzied course.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Anatomy of Love by Denis de Rougemont, 1958
Love is richer when it is singular and self‑sufficient, whereas many lovers become empty and unfulfilled.
In simple terms: True love is about depth, not numbers.
Key Takeaway
Seek deep connection, not many.
Themes
love
loneliness
fulfillment
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
philosophical
poetic
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- personal growth
- spiritual practice
- relationship therapy
Key Concepts
existentialism
romantic idealism
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you find fulfillment in a single deep relationship?
- What does it mean to be “infinitely possessed” by love?
A Different Perspective
Multiplicity can lead to superficial bonds that lack true intimacy.
