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Crying Told Quote by Deborah Tannen

“Psychologists John and Sandra Condry asked subjects to interpret why an infant was crying. If they had been told the baby was a boy, subjects thought he was angry, but if they had been told it was a girl, they thought she was afraid.” quote by Deborah Tannen
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““Psychologists John and Sandra Condry asked subjects to interpret why an infant was crying. If they had been told the baby was a boy, subjects thought he was angry, but if they had been told it was a girl, they thought she was afraid.””

Deborah Tannen

About This Quote

Source Book: You Just Don't Understand, 1990

Gender expectations shape how we interpret emotions, leading to biased judgments.

In simple terms: Gender biases affect emotional interpretation.

Key Takeaway

Question assumptions about others' feelings.

Themes

gender perception bias

Mood

analytical critical

Type

educational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child interactions
  • workplace feedback
  • media analysis

Key Concepts

social psychology communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we reduce gender bias in interpretation?
  • What alternative explanations exist for emotional cues?
A Different Perspective

Such stereotypes can oversimplify complex emotions.

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