Difficult Decide Quote by Deborah Tannen
““One reason it's so difficult to decide what to say became immediately clear: comments and questions that some appreciated were not appreciated by others.””
About This Quote
Source Book: You Just Don’t Understand, Deborah Tannen, 1990
Communication is hard because what one person values may be disliked by another, creating conflict.
In simple terms: People value different things in conversation.
Key Takeaway
Consider others’ perspectives before speaking.
Themes
communication
conflict
perception
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
educational
practical
When to use this quote
- team meetings
- family dinners
- online forums
Key Concepts
social linguistics
interpersonal dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you navigate conflicting feedback?
- When should you prioritize your own voice?
A Different Perspective
Not all disagreements stem from differing values.
