People say Quote by David Nicholls
““They regarded each other for a moment. He lay down once more, and after a moment she followed and jumped a little when she found out that he had slid his arm beneath her shoulders. There was a self-conscious moment of mutual discomfort before she turned onto her side abs curled towards him. Tightening his arm around her, he spoke into the top of her head. ‘You know what I can’t understand? You have all these people telling you all the time how great you are, smart, funny and talented and all that, I mean endlessly, I’ve been telling you for years. So why don’t you believe it? Why do you think people say that stuff, Em? Do you think it’s a conspiracy, people secretly ganging up to be nice to you?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: One Day by David Nicholls, 2009
A tender moment reveals deep insecurity; despite constant praise, she doubts her worth, and he questions whether compliments are genuine or a conspiracy.
In simple terms: She feels undeserving despite praise.
Key Takeaway
Offer genuine, specific affirmation.
Themes
self‑esteem
relationships
validation
Mood
hopeful
intimate
Type
advice
conversational
When to use this quote
- romantic partnership
- friendship
- career feedback
- mental health counseling
Key Concepts
psychology
social perception
insecurity
Questions to Reflect On
- What evidence can you give yourself that you are truly valued?
- How can you help others feel genuinely appreciated?
A Different Perspective
People may still doubt themselves even with support.
