Belonging Quote by David Levithan
“Why do we even bother? Why do we make ourselves so open to such easy damage? Is it all loneliness? Is it all fear? Or is it just to experience those narcotic moments of belonging with someone else?”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Every Day by David Levithan, 2012
The quote questions the motivations behind seeking connection despite vulnerability, suggesting loneliness and fear drive us to crave belonging, even if fleeting.
In simple terms: We seek connection despite risk, driven by loneliness and fear.
Embrace vulnerability to find genuine belonging.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendship
- romantic relationships
- online dating
- support groups
- mental health therapy
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears keep you from opening up?
- How can you balance openness with self‑protection?
Vulnerability can lead to pain and exploitation; not all connections are healthy.