Feeling Quote by David Levithan
“There has to be a moment at the beginning when you wonder whether you’re in love with the person or in love with the feeling of love itself.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Every Day by David Levithan, 2012
It questions whether love is for the person or the emotion itself, highlighting self‑reflection in relationships.
In simple terms: Are you loving the person or the feeling of love?
Key Takeaway
Examine the nature of your affection.
Themes
love
identity
self‑reflection
Mood
contemplative
introspective
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- dating
- self‑help counseling
- relationship therapy
Key Concepts
emotional awareness
attachment theory
Questions to Reflect On
- What draws you to the feeling versus the individual?
- How does this distinction affect commitment?
A Different Perspective
Love can be confused with infatuation, leading to misaligned expectations.
