Arguing Quote by David Levithan
“I hope that George doesn't internalize her scare tactics. I want to argue with her, tell her that "sins of the flesh" is just a control mechanism -- if you demonize a person's pleasure, then you can control his or her life. I can't say how many times this tool has been wielded against me, in a variety of forms. But I see no sin in a kiss. I only see sin in the condemnation.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Every Day, 2012
Control often masquerades as moral condemnation; true freedom lies in embracing pleasure without shame.
In simple terms: Condemnation restricts joy; freedom embraces it.
Reject shame‑based control.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- personal boundaries
- social activism
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance desire with ethical considerations?
- What strategies protect you from manipulative moral judgments?
Overemphasis on pleasure may neglect responsibility.