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Heart Quote by David Grossman

“And he, in his way, talked with her about everything, and shared with her everything, he thought would not be too painful for her, even though she was gladly willing to pay the pain levy, which was sometimes unbearable, only so that he would not for a moment stop the flow of his talk with her, so…” quote by David Grossman
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““And he, in his way, talked with her about everything, and shared with her everything, he thought would not be too painful for her, even though she was gladly willing to pay the pain levy, which was sometimes unbearable, only so that he would not for a moment stop the flow of his talk with her, so he would not filter or protect her or think twice.””

David Grossman

About This Quote

Source Novel: "A Horse Walks Into a Bar" by David Grossman, 2017

Intense sharing can become burdensome; protecting another from pain may lead to self‑sacrifice and emotional overload.

In simple terms: Sharing too much can be painful.

Key Takeaway

Balance openness with self‑care.

Themes

communication empathy boundaries burden

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • friendship
  • family dynamics
  • workplace collaboration

Key Concepts

psychology relationships emotional labor

Questions to Reflect On

  • When should you hold back?
  • How to set healthy emotional boundaries?
A Different Perspective

Over‑sharing may cause resentment or burnout.

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