Fear Quote by Danny Wallace
““Why doesn't he say something to her? But I knew why. Because there's the creeping fear that these moments don't actually exist outside your own head. No eyes meet across a crowded room, no two people thing precisely the same thing, and if only one person actually has that moment, is it even really a moment at all? We know this, so we say nothing. We avert our eyes, or pretend to be looking for change, we hope the other person will take the initiative, because we don't want to risk losing this feeling of excitement and possibilities and lust. It's too perfect. That little second of hope is worth something, possibly for ever, as we lie on out deathbeds, surrounded by our children, and our grandchildren and our great-grandchildren, and we can't help but quickly give on last selfish, dying thought to what could have happened if we'd actually said hello to that girl in the Uggs selling CDs outside Nando's seventy-four years earlier.””
About This Quote
Source Film: The Life of an Artist, 2015
People often hesitate to act on fleeting connections out of fear they are imagined, missing potential relationships.
In simple terms: Fear of imagined moments stops us from acting.
Key Takeaway
Act on genuine connections despite uncertainty.
Themes
fear
connection
missed opportunities
regret
Mood
reflective
nostalgic
Type
philosophical
contemplative
When to use this quote
- first encounters
- social events
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology
human behavior
social anxiety
Questions to Reflect On
- What would you say if you could go back?
- How does fear shape your social choices?
A Different Perspective
Risk of disappointment can outweigh potential reward.
