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Care Quote by Dalai Lama

“We can't be useful to ourselves unless we're useful to others … Anyone concerned only by his own well-being will suffer eventually. Anyone concerned with the well-being of others takes care of himself without even thinking about it. Even if we decide to remain selfish. let us be intelligently…” quote by Dalai Lama
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“We can't be useful to ourselves unless we're useful to others … Anyone concerned only by his own well-being will suffer eventually. Anyone concerned with the well-being of others takes care of himself without even thinking about it. Even if we decide to remain selfish. let us be intelligently selfish - let us help others.”

Dalai Lama

About This Quote

Source Speech: Public Talk, Dalai Lama, 1990

Helping others is essential for personal well‑being; selfishness can be reframed as intelligent self‑care through service.

In simple terms: Helping others helps yourself.

Key Takeaway

Serve to thrive.

Themes

altruism self‑care interdependence

Mood

compassionate reflective

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • volunteering
  • team projects
  • community support
  • mentoring
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

Buddhist ethics reciprocity psychological well‑being

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance self‑care with serving others?
  • What does “intelligently selfish” mean to you?
A Different Perspective

Self‑interest may conflict with genuine altruism if motives are insincere.

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