Kashay Quote by Dada Bhagwan
““One’s worldly interaction should be ideal. If one becomes ‘sticky’ (does attachment-abhorrence) in his worldly interactions, he will become kashayi (develop anger-pride-deceit-greed). The worldly life is like a boat. In this boat, you can eat snacks, drink tea. But you should know that with this boat, we have to reach the shore.””
About This Quote
Source Talk: Spiritual Teachings, 1995
Attachment leads to negative emotions; detachment allows calm progress toward spiritual goals, likened to a boat journey.
In simple terms: Attachment creates anger and greed; detachment guides toward peace.
Key Takeaway
Practice detachment to avoid negative traits.
Themes
spirituality
attachment
inner peace
Mood
contemplative
serene
Type
philosophical
spiritual
When to use this quote
- daily life
- relationships
- business decisions
Key Concepts
non‑attachment
karma
mindfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- What attachments hinder you?
- How can you balance care and detachment?
A Different Perspective
Detachment can feel cold or disengaged.
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