All things Quote by D. H. Lawrence
“Most fatal, most hateful of all things is bullying… Sensual bullying of course is fairly easily detected. What is more dangerous is ideal bullying. Bullying people into what is ideally good for them.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Art of Fiction, 1926
Bullying can be overt or subtle; the most harmful is when it masquerades as guidance toward a perceived good.
In simple terms: Guidance that feels like bullying is dangerous.
Key Takeaway
Beware of imposing your idea of good on others.
Themes
bullying
power
morality
psychology
Mood
uneasy
reflective
Type
cautionary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parenting
- management
- education
- politics
- friendships
Key Concepts
coercive guidance
ethical manipulation
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you felt “helpful” pressure?
- How do you distinguish guidance from bullying?
A Different Perspective
Even well‑intentioned pressure can strip autonomy and cause resentment.
