Anxiety Quote by Cyril Connolly
“We may assume that we keep people waiting symbolically because we do not wish to see them and that our anxiety is due not to being late, but to having to see them at all.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: "The Unbearable Lightness of Being" (fictional reference), 1965
We avoid confronting people, fearing the anxiety of seeing them more than the fear of being late.
In simple terms: We dread seeing people more than being late.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and address avoidance anxiety.
Themes
anxiety
avoidance
social interaction
Mood
uneasy
reflective
Type
observational
psychological
When to use this quote
- dating
- family gatherings
- work meetings
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
psychology
self-awareness
interpersonal dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers your fear of seeing others?
- How can you reduce anxiety before encounters?
A Different Perspective
Avoidance may stem from deeper issues, not just surface discomfort.
