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“The Toys My little Son, who look'd from thoughtful eyes And moved and spoke in quiet grown-up wise, Having my law the seventh time disobey'd, I struck him, and dismiss'd With hard words and unkiss'd, —His Mother, who was patient, being dead. Then, fearing lest his grief should hinder sleep, I…” quote by Coventry Patmore
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““ The Toys My little Son, who look'd from thoughtful eyes And moved and spoke in quiet grown-up wise, Having my law the seventh time disobey'd, I struck him, and dismiss'd With hard words and unkiss'd, —His Mother, who was patient, being dead. Then, fearing lest his grief should hinder sleep, I visited his bed, But found him slumbering deep, With darken'd eyelids, and their lashes yet From his late sobbing wet. And I, with moan, Kissing away his tears, left others of my own; For, on a table drawn beside his head, He had put, within his reach, A box of counters and a red-vein'd stone, A piece of glass abraded by the beach, And six or seven shells, A bottle with bluebells, And two French copper coins, ranged there with careful art, To comfort his sad heart. So when that night I pray'd To God, I wept, and said: Ah, when at last we lie with trancèd breath, Not vexing Thee in death, And Thou rememberest of what toys We made our joys, How weakly understood Thy great commanded good, Then, fatherly not less Than I whom Thou hast moulded from the clay, Thou'lt leave Thy wrath, and say, 'I will be sorry for their childishness.””

Coventry Patmore

About This Quote

Source Poem: “The Toys” (published 1875) in collection *Poems and Ballads*

A father comforts his grieving son with simple gifts, reflecting on mortality, divine compassion, and the fragility of human joy.

In simple terms: Father offers toys to soothe sorrow, pondering life's fleeting nature.

Key Takeaway

Find comfort in small acts of kindness.

Themes

grief comfort mortality faith parenthood

Mood

somber hopeful

Type

poetic contemplative

When to use this quote

  • funeral rites
  • parental counseling
  • comforting a child
  • personal loss

Key Concepts

symbolism empathy spiritual reflection

Questions to Reflect On

  • What simple gestures can ease another’s grief?
  • How does acknowledging mortality affect daily life?
A Different Perspective

The poem’s archaic language may obscure its emotional core for modern readers.

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