Blame Quote by Collette O'Mahony
““Violations of love in relation to others are punished by feelings of fear. The presence of fear indicates a wrong to be amended. Ignoring your feelings is an infringement of the Law of cause & effect. Your feeling is the effect. Suppressed feelings are a refusal to feel the effect after the cause. To release fear, you must be willing to feel the effect your previous actions have had on others. The mental hiding place of fear uses excuses to avoid feeling. Blame, judgment and projection are mental shields that fear hides behind. Willingness to take responsibility for your life ensures that the effect of your thoughts, words, and actions are immediate. If you impinge on another, you feel it instantly. Also, if there is an infringement on you by a friend or colleague, you feel the effect. If you ignore the feelings imposed on you by another it leads to a victim mentality. Feeling the effect of someone else’s action ensures they must take responsibility for their behavior towards you.””
About This Quote
Source Self‑Help Guide: Emotional Freedom, 2020 (hypothetical)
Unprocessed fear signals unresolved wrongdoing; acknowledging feelings restores cause‑effect balance and personal responsibility.
In simple terms: Feel fear, fix the cause.
Key Takeaway
Own your emotions, act responsibly.
Themes
emotions
responsibility
cause and effect
Mood
introspective
empowering
Type
psychological
motivational
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- conflict resolution
- personal growth workshops
- team feedback meetings
Key Concepts
psychology
mindfulness
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- What fear are you avoiding?
- How does acknowledging impact change your actions?
A Different Perspective
Ignoring feelings can lead to victimhood and unresolved conflict.
