Bases Quote by Colleen Hoover
““Selflessness. It should be the basis of every relationship. If a person truly cares about you, they'll get more pleasure from the way they make you feel, rather than the way you make them feel.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: It Ends with Us, 2016
True caring means finding joy in making others feel good, not in receiving pleasure from them.
In simple terms: Care is about giving joy, not taking.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize others’ happiness.
Themes
selflessness
relationships
empathy
Mood
thoughtful
empathetic
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- friendship
- romantic partnership
- family dynamics
- volunteering
Key Concepts
caregiving
pleasure
mutual support
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance self-care with selflessness?
- When does giving become harmful?
A Different Perspective
Selflessness can lead to self-neglect if boundaries aren't set.
