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“We practice conscious forgetting by refusing to summon up the fiery material, we refuse to recollect. To forget is an active, not a passive, endeavor. It means to not haul up certain materials, or turn them over and over, to not work oneself up by repetitive thought, picture, or emotion.” quote by Clarissa Pinkola Estes
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“We practice conscious forgetting by refusing to summon up the fiery material, we refuse to recollect. To forget is an active, not a passive, endeavor. It means to not haul up certain materials, or turn them over and over, to not work oneself up by repetitive thought, picture, or emotion.”

Clarissa Pinkola Estes

About This Quote

Source Book: Women Who Run With The Wolves, Clarissa Pinkola Estes, 1992

Conscious forgetting is an intentional act of not revisiting painful memories or thoughts, preventing them from dominating one’s mind.

In simple terms: Choosing not to dwell on harmful memories.

Key Takeaway

Practice selective mental focus.

Themes

mindfulness psychology healing

Mood

reflective calm

Type

advice psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • stress management
  • personal growth
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

cognitive control emotional regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • Which memories do you repeatedly revisit?
  • How can you gently redirect your focus?
A Different Perspective

It may be hard to identify which thoughts to suppress without avoidance.

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