Education Quote by Clarissa Pinkola Estés
““Many women do not even have the basic teaching about predators that a wolf mother gives her pups, such as: if it's threatening and bigger than you, flee; if it's weaker, see what you want to do; if it's sick, leave it alone; if it has quills, poison, fangs, or razor claws, back up and go in the other direction; it it smells nice but is wrapped around metal jaws, walk on by.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Women Who Run With the Wolves, 1992
She uses a wolf mother’s instinctual teachings as a metaphor for women’s need to recognize and respond to threats.
In simple terms: Women should trust instinctive warnings and act decisively.
Listen to inner instincts and act on danger.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal safety
- parenting children
- self‑defense training
- mental health counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What modern situations require a “wolf mother” approach?
- How can we balance caution with openness?
The metaphor may oversimplify complex social dynamics and predator behavior.