Every man Quote by Christopher Isherwood
““I could never keep anybody for long. And that's because I'm the type which every man imagines he wants, until he gets me; and then he finds he doesn't really, after all.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Goodbye to Berlin by Christopher Isherwood, 1939
People often idealize partners based on fantasies, but reality reveals mismatches after intimacy.
In simple terms: We imagine ideal partners, but reality differs.
Recognize and accept realistic expectations.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- long-term partnership
- self-reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations do you hold that may be unrealistic?
- How can you align fantasies with reality?
Idealization can lead to disappointment if not examined.