Deep inside Quote by Chris Tomlinson
““Something deep inside each one of us seeks to prove we are good enough--to our parents, our friends, ourselves, God. We do this because we know deep down that we aren't good enough, and the illusion of feeling like good people feels better than the reality of knowing we are not.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: "The Illusion of Goodness", 2019
People seek validation from others and a self‑image of goodness, despite feeling inadequate internally.
In simple terms: Seeking external approval masks inner insecurity.
Cultivate authentic self‑acceptance.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy
- journaling
- mindfulness practices
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does being “good enough” truly mean to you?
- How can you align self‑image with inner reality?
Overemphasis on approval can hinder growth.