““There are millions of self-help books. They have different names, different catch-phrases, and different sounding strategies. In reality, though, self-help books are like different types of cars. They might look differently and make different promises, but they all work the same way. In the case of self-help, most books are a complicated way of saying the same simple thing: believe in something and it will happen. Focus on the things you want, and you will get the things you want. Focus on the things you do not want, and you””