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Code of honor Quote by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni

“For men, the softer emotions are always intertwined with power and pride. That was why Karna waited for me to plead with him though he could have stopped my suffering with a single world. That was why he turned on me when I refused to ask for his pity. That was why he incited Dussasan to an action…” quote by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni
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““For men, the softer emotions are always intertwined with power and pride. That was why Karna waited for me to plead with him though he could have stopped my suffering with a single world. That was why he turned on me when I refused to ask for his pity. That was why he incited Dussasan to an action that was against the code of honor by which he lived his life. He knew he would regret it—in his fierce smile there had already been a glint of pain. But was a woman's heart any purer, in the end? That was the final truth I learned. All this time I'd thought myself better than my father, better than all those men who inflicted harm on a thousand innocents in order to punish the one man who had wronged them. I'd thought myself above the cravings that drove him. But I, too, was tainted with them, vengeance encoded into my blood. When the moment came I couldn't resist it, no more than a dog can resist chewing a bone that, splintering, makes his mouth bleed. Already I was storing these lessons inside me. I would use them over the long years of exile to gain what I wanted, no matter what its price. But Krishna, the slippery one, the one who had offered me a different solace, Krishna with his disappointed eyes—what was the lesson he'd tried to teach?””

Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Palace of Illusions by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, 2018

The passage explores how emotions, pride, and vengeance intertwine with power, revealing that even heroic figures are flawed and driven by personal pain.

In simple terms: Power, pride, and vengeance mix with emotions, showing heroes are flawed.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the humanity in leaders and oneself.

Themes

power pride vengeance humanity

Mood

tragic thoughtful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • leadership
  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth
  • storytelling

Key Concepts

mythology psychology ethics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do personal motives shape decisions?
  • Can we separate duty from personal pain?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing heroes can ignore their flaws.

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