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Child Quote by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

“Teach her about privilege and inequality and the importance of giving dignity to everyone who does not mean her harm—teach her that the household help is human just like her, teach her always to greet the driver. Link these expectations to her identity—for example, say to her “In our family, when…” quote by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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““Teach her about privilege and inequality and the importance of giving dignity to everyone who does not mean her harm—teach her that the household help is human just like her, teach her always to greet the driver. Link these expectations to her identity—for example, say to her “In our family, when you are a child, you greet those older than you no matter what job they do.””

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New York Times, 2015

Teach children to see every person as equal, regardless of job, by linking respect to family values.

In simple terms: Respect all people, no matter their work.

Key Takeaway

Instill dignity and empathy early.

Themes

equality empathy family values

Mood

thoughtful instructive

Type

educational ethical

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • education
  • multicultural households

Key Concepts

human dignity social conditioning identity formation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can families model respect for service workers?
  • What habits reinforce class bias?
A Different Perspective

May overlook systemic power imbalances beyond individual interactions.

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