Brothers and sisters Quote by Charlotte Mary Yonge
““His father’s solicitude and sympathy were round him day and night, and this, in the midst of so much toil, pain, grief, and anxiety of his own, that Norman might well feel overwhelmed with the swelling, inexpressible feelings of grateful affection. How could his father know exactly what he would like—say the very things he was thinking—see that his depression was not wilful repining—find exactly what best soothed him! He wondered, but he could not have said so to any one, only his eye brightened, and, as his sisters remarked, he never seemed half so uncomfortable when papa was in the room. Indeed, the certainty that his father felt the sorrow as acutely as himself, was one reason of his opening to him. He could not feel that his brothers and sisters did so, for, outwardly, their habits were unaltered, their spirits not lowered, their relish for things around much the same as before, and this had given Norman a sense of isolation. With his father it was different. Norman knew he could never appreciate what the bereavement was to him—he saw its traces in almost every word and look, and yet perceived that something sustained and consoled him, though not in the way of forgetfulness.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Heir of Redclyffe (1853) – Victorian literature
A son's deep gratitude stems from his father's empathetic presence, easing his emotional isolation.
In simple terms: Father's empathy comforts son.
Seek empathetic support in hardship.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling
- family therapy
- personal loss
- mental health
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What makes empathetic listening effective?
- How can we offer support when we cannot fully understand another's pain?
Not all family members provide equal emotional relief.