Accepted Quote by Charles Horton Cooley
“If we divine a discrepancy between a man's words and his character, the whole impression of him becomes broken and painful; he revolts the imagination by his lack of unity, and even the good in him is hardly accepted.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Human Nature and the Social Order, 1920
When words and character clash, the person seems fragmented, making it hard to accept even their good traits.
In simple terms: Inconsistent behavior breaks trust.
Key Takeaway
Align actions with words.
Themes
trust
integrity
perception
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
analytical
psychological
When to use this quote
- relationships
- leadership
- public speaking
Key Concepts
cognitive dissonance
social judgment
identity
Questions to Reflect On
- What causes the gap between speech and behavior?
- How can you restore trust after inconsistency?
A Different Perspective
People may change; context matters.
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