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“...but everything in our intercourse did give me pain. Whatever her tone with me happened to be, I could put no trust in it, and build no hope on it; and yet I went on against trust and against hope. Why repeat it a thousand times? So it always was.” quote by Charles Dickens
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““...but everything in our intercourse did give me pain. Whatever her tone with me happened to be, I could put no trust in it, and build no hope on it; and yet I went on against trust and against hope. Why repeat it a thousand times? So it always was.””

Charles Dickens

About This Quote

Source Novel: Great Expectations by Charles Dickens, 1861

The narrator feels constant emotional pain and distrust in a relationship, yet continues despite hopelessness, questioning the repetition of suffering.

In simple terms: He feels hurt and distrustful but keeps going, wondering why the pain repeats.

Key Takeaway

Recognize patterns of pain and seek change.

Themes

trust hope repetition pain relationship

Mood

melancholy reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • romantic disappointment
  • family conflict
  • personal growth
  • mental health
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

psychology existentialism resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What patterns keep you stuck in painful cycles?
  • How can you break the loop of distrust?
A Different Perspective

The quote may romanticize suffering rather than encouraging constructive action.

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