Abuse Quote by Charles Caleb Colton
“It has been shrewdly said, that when, men abuse us we should suspect ourselves, and when they praise us, them. It is a rare instance of virtue to despise which censure which we do not deserve; and still more rare to despise praise which we do.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Art of Being Wise”, early 19th‑century collection of maxims
When praised, we should question if we deserve it; when blamed, we should consider if we are at fault.
In simple terms: Question praise and blame to avoid ego.
Key Takeaway
Critically assess both commendation and criticism.
Themes
humility
self‑awareness
virtue
criticism
ego
Mood
contemplative
analytical
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- leadership
- personal development
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
cognitive bias
moral philosophy
self‑reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- When do you accept praise?
- How do you handle unjust criticism?
A Different Perspective
May cause over‑analysis or indecision.
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