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Feel good Quote by Charles Bukowski

“Love is a form of prejudice. You love what you need, you love what makes you feel good, you love what is convenient. How can you say you love one person when there are ten thousand people in the world that you would love more if you ever met them? But you'll never meet them.” quote by Charles Bukowski
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“Love is a form of prejudice. You love what you need, you love what makes you feel good, you love what is convenient. How can you say you love one person when there are ten thousand people in the world that you would love more if you ever met them? But you'll never meet them.”

Charles Bukowski

About This Quote

Source Book: Ham on Rye by Charles Bukowski, 1971

Love is biased toward personal benefit, making it selective and limited by circumstance.

In simple terms: Love favors what serves us.

Key Takeaway

Recognize love’s partiality.

Themes

bias subjectivity relationships

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

observational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendships
  • family dynamics
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

psychology human nature attachment

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you love for need or for the person?
  • How does convenience shape your affection?
A Different Perspective

Love may overlook deeper connections beyond immediate desire.

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