Why can’t you understand that? A woman must come freely.”…
““Why can’t you understand that? A woman must come freely.” Lowering his hand to her waist, he leaned away from her, his dark eyes searching, thoughtful. “And when you come freely, you will have no fear?” “I--” She stared at him. “I suppose if I--not that I ever would, mind you--but if I came to you freely, then, no, I probably wouldn’t.” Loretta knew she was babbling. He looked confused, and she didn’t blame him. She broke off, and her gaze chased away from his. “It’s so completely unlikely that I--but if I did, I don’t suppose I would be afraid. I wouldn’t come if I were.” His arm relaxed around her. After studying her for what seemed an eternity, he said, “Then this Comanche will wait. Until the Great Ones lead you in a great circle back to him.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Comanche Tale by Catherine Anderson, 1995
A woman’s willingness to give herself freely is tied to trust and fear of vulnerability, suggesting true intimacy requires mutual openness.
In simple terms: Freedom in love needs trust, not fear.
Key Takeaway
Seek honest connection, not coercion.
Themes
trust
vulnerability
intimacy
gender roles
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- personal boundaries
- consent discussions
Key Concepts
mutual consent
emotional safety
cultural expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you build trust before intimacy?
- What fears prevent you from being vulnerable?
A Different Perspective
True intimacy cannot be forced; it must be earned.