Feeling good Quote by Cath Crowley
““I sit here shifting between feeling terrible about what I said to Rachel and feeling good because I stood up for myself and most of all feeling like I’ve wet myself because of Rachel’s parting move. After about half an hour, Martin walks over and sits next to me. ‘Great party,’ he says, like what he’s really saying is, This is the worst place I have ever been in my whole life. Fuck you for bringing me here. Even when he’s being rude, Martin is polite.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Girl Who Was Supposed to Die, Cath Crowley, 2014
The narrator experiences mixed emotions about a social event, feeling both shame and empowerment, while observing a friend's contradictory behavior.
In simple terms: Conflicted feelings at a party and noticing a friend's rude politeness.
Key Takeaway
Accept mixed emotions and notice others’ hidden attitudes.
Themes
conflict
self‑esteem
social dynamics
Mood
uneasy
reflective
Type
narrative
observational
emotional
When to use this quote
- party gatherings
- friendship tension
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
psychology
interpersonal perception
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance self‑respect with empathy for others?
- What does polite rudeness reveal about social masks?
A Different Perspective
The narrator’s view may be biased by personal insecurities.
