Anxieties Quote by Cassandra Clare
““Clary: I'd spent so much time running and fighting and desperate. And then things were ordinary. I didn't trust it. We get used to living one way, even if it's a bad wayor a hard one. When that's gone, there's a hole to fill. It's in our nature to try to fill it with anxieties and fears. It can take time to fill it with good things instead.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Clockwork Princess, The Mortal Instruments series, 2010
When a familiar, even if harmful, routine ends, people feel a void that they instinctively fill with anxiety unless they consciously replace it with positive experiences.
In simple terms: Losing a bad habit creates a gap that can be filled with worry or good things.
Replace emptiness with constructive habits.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- life transitions
- post‑breakup
- career change
- retirement
- recovering from trauma
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What healthy activities can you adopt to fill new gaps?
- How can you recognize when anxiety fills a void?
Positive change often requires deliberate effort and time, not just willpower.